(Personal feelings post)
About the relatively recent abortion ban., which makes me sick, and sad, and extremely depressed…
I’m very sorry to all the women in red states right now. I’m ashamed to be amercian at this point. I am so sad it’s hard to even be thankful as much for anything anymore. I feel your pain and suffering. It’s not fair to you all. It’s not fair for you and your families. From the bottom of my heart I want things to get better for you, for all of you. It sucks that I can’t say anything more, nothing I can say will remove this hardship, I can say all I want but I won’t be able to take the situation away. It’s up to the government now, I guess, but I wish I could help. If I were in your position I’d be completely destroyed, I wouldn’t trust anyone, and I probably would be fearful to engage in any relationships sexual or not in fear of getting pregnant because then I’m screwed. I don’t like how politically divided this country is. I don’t like how liberals and conservatives behave sometimes on both ends of the spectrum, and especially more extremists and people who aren’t willing to reasonably work out issues and listen to each other carefully, and would rather respond with hate, anger, or disgust, or speak too loudly on top of others without giving others a chance. I probably make mistakes too in that regard, but I want you to know that I deeply feel ashamed and sad for you and I’d rather talk than not at this point, it feels so lonely and everyone feels so far apart.
I would like to think people in blue states would be sending money, support, their kindest most generous acts, willingness to protest or come help, peaceful protests, anything they can…hopefully they are, but i don’t really watch the news anymore. It feels like everything’s a blame game right now.
Conservative women i wish you knew, i feel bad, i feel terrible when people say “karen”, or think you’re crazy, or poor, or racist or whatever they say because it’s not helpful to you. Even if you had issues it’s not the way to change it or solve anything for anyone. It’s just rude to you. It’s just like they’re trying to blame you for whatever feelings you have that you can’t help. I don’t always agree with you all the time for things that you may say or believe, but you know what? Liberals are honestly no better in that regard. Liberals are often equally as bad as some conservative beliefs and it’s really stupid. Liberals act like they’re better but they’re really not. In my experience like - i know how you feel, and i don’t like it, and I’m sorry. and.. here’s a story.
I was called more things than i can count for reasons completely out of my control. i was also called racist— i was called this by a guy who used to be my friend, the relationship if you can even call it that became extremely toxic… he called me that on a group chat, we were all talking about politics for the 1000th time and i hated talking about politics and nothing else.. for reasons, arranged marriages came up as a topic… i said they were bad, or at least not healthy for real relationships, because if women are forced into marriage they can’t make their own choices of who to love, and he actually had the audacity to lecture me about “not saying whatever i want bc its “racist” and unfair to other cultures” or some garbage like that, as if i didn’t know that, as if i was stupid. I was talking about the practice, not the culture. Nothing i said was racist. I have never said the N word in my life. He was what you all (y’all) would call a sjw.
A”social justice warrior” or whatever they call it. I didn’t like that and i never will. It’s just not healthy and productive.
To be honest.. It’s toxic. It’s like people who say “I’m going to change the WORLD!!” With such pride without understanding facts or anything, or even having a plan. It’s ridiculous, honestly. A single person can’t change the entire world, certainly not this country at this state. You need more people working together. The government should be doing that with us, to help us, if they even cared but.. instead of changing the world, the country, why can’t people like that start by changing themselves? Changing themselves for the better and for their friends and family? I dunno, like.. getting into good habits or whatever? Instead their goal is to “change the world” by controlling everyone else’s thoughts, desperately trying to get them to have their same opinion… 🙄 (which, comes from what? What is their actual motive? Why do they want to change? What do they want to change? Do they not realize that this is a complicated issue? There’s no 1, single step to change things. Like ever. There are multiple steps. Do they know this? Gosh)
Besides being called racist for no reason at all i’ve also beem called an sjw. I’ve probably been called sjw by people who are also sjw. I’ve been called a f*ggot, even though i’m biologically female, a sl*t when i was a virgin for the longest time, and i still am, that’s a private scary story so i’m not going to go in detail there , sorry. I’ve been called a b*tch, a drama queen despite me being the shyest kid in class and having social anxiety and avoiding drama at all costs. I’ve been called a lot of other stupid slurs, internet lingo that i really don’t feel like repeating. Who knows, maybe somedwy i’ll be called a karen too.
These words are evil and hurtful, honestly i don’t believe in “reclaiming slurs” all that much, it would be better off to say nice things to people instead, not defining them by a characteristic or whatever, and just treating each other as fellow humans…
Anyway, that’s all. I deeply hope and want for you to be safe. I don’t care if you’re red or blue. You’re still women, and yoo’re still in a rough spot, and it’s not fair. Please feel free to talk to me but if you don’t want to i understand. Hopefully we can change this… I really hope so.
Ultimately, the government SHOULD NEVER have control over anyone’s body and health.
I stand with you, and all the other women in the world who are having a hard time.
After all, i am a woman…
Always remember! Women support women ❤️☮️
